Just because someone speaks the English language, it doesn't always mean that English is their first language, particularly when they're at home with their families.
LOL no I have never used any skin lightening creams. I am proud of my colour! It is natural and not a suntan. We have brown and white skin tones in our family tree and I am proud of my language. :)
I am definitley a woman and I've never changed my sex. My name is spelt FRANCES...and not with an I :)